Originally Posted by
B Butler
I hope you don't intend to educate him, one word at a time?
Different subcultures have different dialects, use words in different ways, value different things and take pride in different behaviors that mark them as being members of a given group. I get that you consider your subculture superior to his. Depending on how one defines or measures 'superior', perhaps you could defend such an assertion.
Subcultures typically want certain aspects of their communication clear to others. The overt part is typically "Respect us". The secretive stuff tends to slip out inconveniently. CXr isn't part of any clear subculture as, for an infamous example, MS-13 is.
I don't see myself as part of any subculture, either. Bad grammar and incompetent word choice simply offend my sensibilities.
But dissing someone else's subculture is of limited utility, even if it is based on economics rather than, say, race, religion or region of origin.
You gotta do what you gotta do, but tread softly.
True. But all in all, language needs to be used precisely. It makes us human. If one is to break the rules to make a point -- fine.
The greatest evil is not now done in those sordid "dens of crime" (or) even in concentration camps and labour camps. In those we see its final result. But it is conceived and ordered... in clean, carpeted, warmed and well-lighted offices, by (those) who do not need to raise their voices. Hence, naturally enough, my symbol for Hell is something like the bureaucracy of a police state or the office of a thoroughly nasty business concern."
― C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters