Kiki, to answer your question, no, learning that we lose such wars is not the lesson. The lesson is that we cannot fight wars in the old WWII style any more because the character of the enemy has changed.
Lydia, I appreciate the fact that you've asked the questions you did. Thank you. I suppose what I want most from my Reps is more looking to what's best for the many rather than what's best for the few, and then some cutting to the chase to get those things done efficiently. It will require both Boomers and Xers, because action taken rashly without thought or wisdom is often erroneous action, and all the thought and wisdom in the world are wasted if no action is ever taken. Our two generations need each other. We are complimentary generations and now is a time for us to put the past behind us.
To whoever it was that said Boomers envy GIs, you are very wrong. They were gods to us when we were kids. When we grew up we learned (thanks to the Silents) that they were flawed gods and reacted the same way anyone does when he finds out his god isn't perfect. Now, at the end, we've learned they were human beings with real human emotions after all. It's not envy you see. It's understanding, finally.
Some have speculated about signs that things have changed. I see evidence all around me that people are behaving better, being nicer, more polite to each other. If that can permeate everything from the streets to sporting events to the movies to the media, it will be a sure sign.
Never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee. John Donne