Every year, John Doyle's neighbors look forward to seeing what kind of Christmas light display he'll come up with. To greet the year 2000, it was a 13-foot-high champagne flute with bubbles. A galaxy appeared before 2001 (a space odyssey).
This year, Doyle was influenced by the events of Sept. 11. Outside his family's Fairlington town house, the World Trade Center's twin towers rise majestically from a glittery gold Manhattan skyline. Out of a gaping hole in the Pentagon, red, white and blue lights soar skyward, bleeding into a ribbon of freedom. Picasso's "Dove With Flowers," a symbol of peace, hovers above them all.
But even Doyle was surprised by his neighbors' reaction to this year's 80-hour labor of love. When he threw the switch the Sunday after Thanksgiving, a large crowd had formed outside his town house, at 4223 S. 36th St. Some took pictures; others cried. Thank-you notes were slipped through the family's mail slot, including one from a neighbor known only to the Doyles as the man who walks Jeepers the dog:
"Coming home from New York after Thanksgiving, a friend expressed surprise that some had already deployed Christmas decorations," the neighbor wrote. 'This year,' I responded, 'I'm happy to see them, because we need that kind of cheer.'
"Then I drove into Fairlington: Wow! I've always enjoyed your light displays. They've been artistic, whimsical, joyous. But this year you put up a display I will remember all my life.
"I'm a former New Yorker living in Washington. Your beautiful display moves me deeply, and I thank you for it. You will find me gazing at it many a night."
In ways big and small, the holiday season will be different this year.
People who live and work in Northern Virginia say the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks in New York -- and in their back yard -- have intensified feelings for family and tradition, changed holiday and travel plans, and altered gift giving.
"If anything, I want to find more meaningful gifts this year, especially for my family," Julie Singer, 32, said as she shopped at The Christmas Attic in Old Town Alexandria. "This will not be a Christmas of gift certificates. I want them to know I love them and I'm thinking of them."
Nita Whitesel, whose family-owned Christmas Attic store has been selling holiday-themed decorations on South Union Street for 30 years, said customers have been snapping up "anything in red-white-and-blue."
At one point, there was a waiting list with 400 names on it for specially designed Christopher Radko ornaments, including one in the image of the Twin Towers, called "Heroes All." Proceeds from the sale of the ornaments will go to help victims' families, Whitesel said.
Whitesel senses that many of her customers, like herself, are embracing the traditions of Christmas more than the glitz this year.
"I don't feel quite as festive; I don't feel like celebrating," said Whitesel, who will not throw a party this year. "I find myself being drawn more and more to the original meaning of Christmas. I'm wanting to be with my family."
College student Lindsey Salo feels the same way. The 19-year-old Alexandrian was away at school when the Pentagon was attacked. Her father works there.
"I was in my dorm room and it came on my TV," Salo said as she did some post-Thanksgiving shopping at Pentagon City Fashion Centre. "My roommate and I just started praying."
Salo learned later that day that her father was safe. She also learned something about herself.
"I value my family a lot more," she said. "I used to love the holidays because of the lights, the Christmas trees, the superficial things. But it's about spending time with my family. I'm definitely buying nicer things this year to show I care."
Her sister agreed.
"I think it's more about appreciating what you have," said Ashley Salo, 16.
Ruby Brown is project manager of the Arlington County Community Resilience Project, a crisis counseling program established after the Pentagon attack. Her group, which provides free services, has found that the usual holiday stresses have been compounded this year.
Her counselors are out in the community trying to get the word out: It's more important than ever to take care of yourself by getting enough sleep and exercise and avoiding holiday junk food.
"This is a time when people are really examining what is important in their lives," Brown said. "People are returning to a more spiritual base to what they're feeling."
As to why some people are buying more special, personal gifts this year, Brown said: "That's another indicator of the need to reconnect to the spiritual side, to think through the gift. 'It needs to come from me because I may not see you again.' That's the part people leave out, because it's the motivator for the change."
Some are showing that appreciation for family and friends by making their gifts. At Made By You in Arlington, where customers can paint their own pottery, red, white and blue paints are the colors of choice for the handmade plates, ornaments, mugs and photo frames.
Usually, patriotic themes are popular around the Fourth of July, not Christmas, said store manager Rosie Troche. But this year, "I've never seen as much patriotic stuff," she said.
And American flags are especially hot gifts this year, said Sandy Corcoran, a sales representative at the National Capital Flag store in Alexandria.
Corcoran said one man stopped in recently to buy flags and brackets for the homes of his five children for Christmas presents. "He's on a limited income and he thought that would be a good gift," she said.
Anthony Capuano, assistant store manager at the Fresh Fields in Arlington, said he has found a way to fight terrorism at home this holiday season.
"I'm spending money," said Capuano, 42. "I can't be drafted, but I can generate income."
Others are taking the opposite approach and spending less money this year.
"I'm not going to do any shopping," said Air Force Master Sgt. Tommy J. Hinson, 37. "Just not in the Christmas spirit. I'm doing a lot more saving than I've done before. I want to be more prepared for a rainy day."
Hinson also has canceled his plans to travel to Tallahassee, in part out of fear of flying and also out of concern that he may be called back to duty.
Hinson was on his way to work at the Pentagon when the terrorists struck. His office was not damaged in the attack, but the experience has changed the way he feels about many things, including the holidays.
He is not alone.
Penny Haley said the terrorist attacks have "drastically" affected her holiday plans -- and her life. The Alexandria resident usually travels to her mother's home in Maryland for Christmas. Not this year.
"I'm scared to go across the Woodrow Wilson Bridge," said Haley, 38. "I'm not going to go near the post office. I went and bought some gloves from the beauty salon" to open the mail.
Because of lingering concerns about anthrax, some people have decided not to send Christmas cards this year. A sudden demand for Christmas postcards has caught many merchants off guard, store managers said.
Postal officials said that customers needn't fear.
"We don't want our customers to be afraid to utilize the mail," said Alexandria Postmaster C. Michael Harlow. He said it's too early to know whether fewer packages and letters will be sent this holiday season.
"The public needs to realize that we are the eyes for them," he said. "We're on heightened awareness about suspicious letters. That's ongoing. I don't think that will ever go away."
Harlow's advice to holiday shoppers: "Mail!"
And there are many people who are doing just that -- trying to make this holiday season as normal as possible.
Arlington police Capt. Tom Panther knows that continuing terrorist threat means that his plans could change in an instant, but for now, he and his wife intend to spend Christmas Eve at home with their two children and then head to his sister's house in Annapolis on Christmas day, just as they always have.
"We're going to celebrate it the same way, but I think there's a solemnity in the country," said Panther, who helped coordinate the police department's response to the Pentagon attack. "I do not feel festive. I feel more grounded this year in that I'm more worried about the workplace. I'm reachable by pager, and I'll have my cell phone."
"Look mom, there's a hole in the Pentagon," 4-year-old Tyler Wilson told his mother, Jane, as they stopped to look at the Doyle's Christmas display in Fairlington.
Now Jane Wilson is back again, this time with a camera to take some pictures. She becomes emotional just talking about the dazzling display, which spills over to the neighbor's town houses on both sides. But it's not just sadness that Doyle has captured here, she says. The display is also about a nation and freedom and hope.
"This is amazing," said Wilson, 37. "To use the red, white and blue in the towers and to capture the sadness of it in a celebratory way. . . ."
Doyle's display has particularly touched this town house community, which was originally owned by the Defense Department to house military families during World War II. Many military families still live there, as do many former residents of New York and New Jersey.
"We're closely connected to the Pentagon," said Sandy Hodapp, 60, a research analyst for the IRS and treasurer of the Fairlington Historical Society. "We had many people who were in the Pentagon when the incident happened."
Doyle researched his project on the Internet before designing it to scale on graph paper. By the time he was finished, his fingertips were bleeding, his wife, Kari Boe Doyle, said.
"I think it's really cool," said their daughter Claire, 10, who has a twin sister, Karlyn. "It's like the perfect time to do this, and it makes people feel a lot better."
The patriotic theme is catching on around the historic community of brick homes and white columns. Flags are being tucked into wreaths. Christmas bows include blue and white instead of just red.
Several days after the Sept. 11 attacks, 8-year-old Joe Patrician began building replicas of the Twin Towers with his Legos. Soon, his family joined in -- having to make at least one run to the store for another set of 1,200 pieces.
"I looked up and thought, 'This is very therapeutic,' " said Melinda Patrician, 51, who lives several doors down from the Doyles. "It was like putting it back together."
The family finally completed the 110th floor. They stuck a tiny Christmas tree on one tower, a Christmas wreath on the face of the other. They decided a picture of the creation would make the perfect Christmas card.
Inside, they decided one word would do: "Peace."