On 2002-07-13 17:08, justmom wrote:
A little background maybe. I am 34 born  in 1968 to a man who was 35, born 
in 1932, to a man who was 
50, born in 1885.  Since you understand generations maybe you see what an anomaly 
this is.  I grew up extremely protected from the culture of 1968 ie: Vietnam, the hippies
etc. But, alternately I was barefoot and ran free most of the day in the hills.
( all the while living in So. Ca. ) I grew into my teens as a typical X?r 
alienated, a punk, used drugs, blah blah. On my own at 18. But, really on my 
own, I never had a roommate to take advantage of. By 24 I had 2 children, the 
first I adopted out and the 2nd I kept.  I was also widowed at 24. By a 
abusive binge drug addict, user of , crack, cocaine, heroine, alcohol, and 
Valum. I still drink wine, on occasions, about 1 bottle a month. Just in case you 
think I?ve swung 180 and now refuse all forms of ?intoxicants? as a knee jerk
reaction.  A year and ? later I was remarried  to the most gracious loving and 
wonderful man alive. With a totally rad job to boot, he?s a sea captain , whose 
home every night.. We now have a total of 3 kids, and I love my life. 
We just celebrated our 8 year anniversary. 
When I was younger I was a bleeding heart liberal. I was also depressed and 
alienated. I wasn?t ever really happy with me, or the way things were.
Now, I am very happy, and content and I like myself, I love my kids, my husband
and I have a great marriage that is envied by some. So if you ask me to 
?Consider the Liberal point of view? been there, done that, I don?t like living 
that way. I prefer being Happy. :grin: