On 2002-07-13 17:08, justmom wrote:
A little background maybe. I am 34 born in 1968 to a man who was 35, born
in 1932, to a man who was
50, born in 1885. Since you understand generations maybe you see what an anomaly
this is. I grew up extremely protected from the culture of 1968 ie: Vietnam, the hippies
etc. But, alternately I was barefoot and ran free most of the day in the hills.
( all the while living in So. Ca. ) I grew into my teens as a typical X?r
alienated, a punk, used drugs, blah blah. On my own at 18. But, really on my
own, I never had a roommate to take advantage of. By 24 I had 2 children, the
first I adopted out and the 2nd I kept. I was also widowed at 24. By a
abusive binge drug addict, user of , crack, cocaine, heroine, alcohol, and
Valum. I still drink wine, on occasions, about 1 bottle a month. Just in case you
think I?ve swung 180 and now refuse all forms of ?intoxicants? as a knee jerk
reaction. A year and ? later I was remarried to the most gracious loving and
wonderful man alive. With a totally rad job to boot, he?s a sea captain , whose
home every night.. We now have a total of 3 kids, and I love my life.
We just celebrated our 8 year anniversary.
When I was younger I was a bleeding heart liberal. I was also depressed and
alienated. I wasn?t ever really happy with me, or the way things were.
Now, I am very happy, and content and I like myself, I love my kids, my husband
and I have a great marriage that is envied by some. So if you ask me to
?Consider the Liberal point of view? been there, done that, I don?t like living
that way. I prefer being Happy. :grin: