Ah, you have stumbled on one of the more subtle ways in which this issue is obfuscated by the pro-abortionists...
My emphasis is added here... because this is how the obfuscation begins. It changes from an argument about the life of the mother into one about her health... and health then becomes her mental and physical health which then becomes her wellbeing! Cut to the chase!!! There is an elephant in the corner here, and that elephant is the fact that there is a large section of the population of this country that want abortion to be legal, accessible and affordable to everyone because they want the ability to eliminate, hide and generally avoid admitting that their behavior has led to a very foreseeable consequence. These people don't feel they should be forced to live with any consequences of their behavior - because that means that someone has judged them, and that's bad. So, they begin rationalizing it in their own mind that they're supporting it "for the mothers wellbeing," and that "it's not killing, it's just disposing of a lump of tissue." If by adopting these rationalizations they can help themselves and like minded people avoid embarrassment, inconvenience and responsibility, then so be it!Originally Posted by elilevin
If these people are ever forced to admit that bad behavior results in bad consequences, they would have to admit that either they used bad judgment, or that they espouse an ideology that society deems wrong - neither of which they can bring themselves to do!
I do not think ill of anyone who, like elilevin or Kiff, struggle over this issue. I truly believe your honest compassion for people is what guides you. I too have compassion for people who make mistakes in judgment, mistakes with consequences that can affect many lives. But nature, the same nature that many pro-abortionists also fight to protect, has no compassion for such mistakes. Mistakes have consequences, plain and simple. Drink - drive - kill someone or yourself. Do drugs - become addicted - OD or become a slave to your addiction. Smoke cigarettes - get cancer - die. You can put all the frilly feel-good excuses around it you want - bad family life, bad neighborhood, evil corporations - but it all comes down to personal choice and taking responsibilities for those choices.
Don't get me wrong, I have a great deal compassion for people who make these mistakes - my own mother made the last one :cry: - but nature is what it is, and we're fooling ourselves by thinking we can alter that.
My sister had an abortion when she was 22... that was in 1975! Sure she avoided the obvious inconvenience and life changing responsibility that comes with a baby, but now a mother of two great kids, she admitted to me that she wonders what could have been. Now, we all have regrets, but I can't even imagine the anguished regret of knowing you prevented a life from being. I have to wonder, (as does she) just which option was truly in the best interest of her health and well being!