On 2001-10-28 22:29, Neisha '67 wrote:
That *really* helps! I am *obsessive* about protecting my boundaries. The one thing that upsets me more than *anything* else is when someone tells me what to do/tries to get me to do things their way. Even if I agree with the substance of what they are saying, I will fight with them about it anyway because they are trying to impose their will on me. Meddlers in general annoy me to no end, even if it's not my affair in which they are meddling. I mean, who gives them the right, you know?
The reason I consistently score J is because I am naturally tidy and organized. I keep an orderly space and show up on time for things. If I say I will do something, I do it and in a timely fashion. However, I like to keep my options open and I am comfortable in chaos.
I wonder if there is a gender thing going on as well. I mean, how many female INTPs are there? INTP's are only about 1 percent of the population, right? Well, of that 1 percent, I'll bet 90% are male. That leaves, what, like 100 of us INTP women on the whole planet (no I didn't do the actual math, but I could)? Yeah, I'm Smurfette to all you Trekkie guys. And I did feel that way in high school. I actually went to an all womens college just so I could have some female friends! Anyway, my point is that if you're an INTP female, you've got to conform somewhere in order to just fit into society. Maybe my way of being more socially acceptable was to be more outwardly organized. I don't know, just a thought.
Are there any other INTP women on these boards? I've lost track. Angeli and Susan, are you guys both INFPs? Geez, if there are no INTP women here, in the land of INTPs, than I really AM a freak!