This gets into the contemporary concept of "Emotional Intelligence." An individual's functions develop and mature over the course of his lifetime. An NT (or ST) type will have F as either his tertiary or inferior function. The tertiary does not typically develop until mid life. The inferior does not typically develop until late in life. The NT, particularly if he has F as his inferior function, will have poor control over his emotions so he suppresses them. When they get out, they REALLY get out. Only in middle age does he begin to master control of his emotions. But contrast this with the NF (or SF) types who have F as dominant or auxiliary. They are already well in control of their emotions by the time they become adults. So, yes a T type is more likely to have an out-of-control outburst. But unlike the F type, his subjective feelings/values do not lead his thinking.Originally Posted by Brian Rush
But these functions are perhaps better understood by what they seek. T seeks control while F seeks harmony. The attitude of the function dictates the type of control or harmony:
Te -> control of outer world
Ti -> control of inner world
Fe -> harmony in outer world
Fi -> harmony in inner world
INFJs being intuitives seeking harmony in the outer world, typically have a vision for all humanity. Will they never be contentious in pursuit of that goal? Well, I do not think that they are necessarily wallflowers. You have tangled with Eric much more than I have witnessed personally and it may well be that he is too contentious or confrontational to be an F. But he would still be the most "feeling" INTP I have ever met. But then that may be the generational effects which can be significant from what I have seen.
Here is one more way to look at it since INFJs and INTPs are somewhat related (both use Ti and Fe). The INFJ uses Ti in the service of Fe while the INTP uses Fe in the service of Ti. The INFJ is driven to be authentic and his Ti principles stem logically from that authenticity. The INTP is driven to find the truth and his intellectual honesty and consistency (authenticity) naturally follow. The INFJ is driven to find the greatest good for the greatest number and he uses Ti in pursuit of that goal. The INTP is driven to find the truth and he uses Fe to provide the greatest good for the greatest number to the extent that the truth allows. This could probably be stated better but it is essentially a horse and cart argument.Eric is more concerned with what he believes and what others believe, and in fighting over same, than he is with social graces and getting along. That's why I believe he's right to call himself a thinking type.
OK, driven by the need for harmony.Again, feeling function doesn't mean "driven by emotion."
Yes, but were the Awakeners (of the '60s) driven by subjective values or objective truths? I think the former predominated and that is F.Often, it means the exact opposite: keeping emotions under control for the sake of social amity. Unless my recollections are totally drug-fused , that did not really characterize the Awakening too well.
And I think you have just described NFJ...unless the value of which you speak was truth. I don't think it was.The Awakening was about ideas, values, judgments. It was very much an NTP thing, IMO.