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Post#1476 at 01-14-2012 09:42 PM by Chas'88 [at In between Pennsylvania & Pennsyltucky joined Nov 2008 #posts 9,432]
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Quote Originally Posted by Tristan View Post
When I took the MBTI test a little while back I came out as a INTJ. For as long as I have been taking these tests I was a ISTJ.

I dunno what happened in that time between tests which changed enough to go from ISTJ to INTJ
It's sort of like I test between either being an ENFP or an ENTP. My T & F are nearly balanced according to some aspect of the test, while my N is my strongest feature of my personality.

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Quote Originally Posted by Chas'88 View Post
My T & F are nearly balanced according to some aspect of the test, while my N is my strongest feature of my personality.

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Same for me except I am a J.

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A good description of Introverted Sensation vs. Introverted Intuition:

If you think that's more useful than Si, Ni is even MORE dissociated from reality. Si is at least somewhat empirical as it tries to keep in touch of reality. Ni gives a big finger to empiricism and reality and believes that living in fantasy land is the only way to be.

Let me give an example:

Two people are looking at an elephant, one an Ni user, the other an Si user.

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Si user: The Si user is observing the elephant and notices certain physical impressions. The Si user's mind, however, warps this impression of reality into his own subjective interpretation.

"This elephant through my eyes is like a small moving mountain with its skin resembling that of rocks and its size that of great mountains."

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Ni user: The Ni user is observing the elephant and some vision overcomes him. There's something incredible about this elephant no one else is seeing, a hidden meaning. It's as if the elephant is speaking to him.

"EVERYONE! THIS ELEPHANT IS THE SIGN OF OUR SAVIOR! WE MUST REJOICE AND CELEBRATE IT'S PRESENCE! FOR IT IS THIS ELEPHANT WHO SHALL RESCUE US FROM THE GREAT DISASTER!!!"

Remember that quote about Jung saying it's as if the introverted intuition is overcome with giddiness? This is what he meant. However, he didn't mean that in a literal sense. He meant that Ni users are usually filled with some type of vision that gives him or her some information of a hidden meaning.

Think Al Sharpton. He's actually a perfect example of an Ni dominant user.

Whereas someone like Bob Ross is a great example of an Si user.
That is a great site, BTW.
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Quote Originally Posted by princeofcats67 View Post
So, are we experiencing the manifestations of a higher than normal level of MBTI "F"s currently, or what?!!!

I've noticed that I've moved more to INTP, recently(ie: "whatever, dude!"). Note: I'm normally labeled as INTJ(ie: conceptual "diamond-cutter").


Prince

PS: I'm having some trouble finding data on MBTI statistics related to age. The MBTI specialists that I'm in contact with are not open to the idea that Personality/Worldview may contain a genetic aspect. Any leads to statistical data based on age would be appreciated.
I always thought people strengthen their "thinking" cap as they get older. I have always been INFJ, but the older I get the more I notice that my percentage leans higher on thinking, then feeling.

So if you are starting to lean more on the feeling side, you know what this tells me? Folks who are really interested in personalities and self growth probably become more balanced as they get older.
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Post#1480 at 01-24-2012 02:55 PM by Marx & Lennon [at '47 cohort still lost in Falwelland joined Sep 2001 #posts 16,709]
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Quote Originally Posted by Chas'88 View Post
It's sort of like I test between either being an ENFP or an ENTP. My T & F are nearly balanced according to some aspect of the test, while my N is my strongest feature of my personality.

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I tested again, and I'm still INTP, but the emphasis is actually stronger now. My I is almost totally gone, my P is shrinking, but I still maxout my N & T.
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Quote Originally Posted by princeofcats67 View Post
<Prince laughs, shakes head>

MillyX, are you testing me?

I didn't say anything about trending more to the "F"(BTW, that's a very offensive thing to say to an INTJ!).
Where did you get that from? I said that I've been trending more "P"...ie: more "N". (FWIW, my J/P are usually almost even, anyway).

Prince

PS: So, you're trending more "T", MillyX? Really?
I reread your post and now understand. You have an interesting style and flow of writing, man. LOL

Anyway, not sure how to address everything you said in the response above except for apply that to becoming a "P" instead of an "F."
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Quote Originally Posted by princeofcats67 View Post
It's my understanding that the 4th variable(J/P) determines if one is currently relying more on their 2nd(N/S) or 3rd variable(F/T). So, in my case, if I'm trending more "P", I'm using my "N" more than my "T". Like I said earlier, I'm normally typed as INTJ(relying on my "T" more than my "N").

Note: By choosing to address this, I'll probably trend back to "J"!

I/r/t your earlier comments, I have read that there appears to be movements between N/S and F/T as One ages. I suspect that I've already done that i/r/t my F/T, though.

Prince

PS: MillyX, please note that I have remembered to include smilies(You MBTI "F"s like them, correct?)
Sure if smiles work for you.

I don't necessarily need them, because I don't think "F" means oversensitive, not sarcastic or not able to determine wit.

I need to link you to this myersbrigg forum I write on. There's probably a link here from me, anyway.
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Quote Originally Posted by Odin View Post
I once described my dominant Si function way back here.







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Quote Originally Posted by Child of Socrates View Post
I once described my dominant Si function way back here.
Another thing that makes me think I am an Si dominant that I have noticed is that in my daily life I have a strong drive to verify things with my own eyes (or ears, or hands). When we close the thrift store in the evening I, for example, check all the doors to make sure they are locked even if someone else said that they have already did, I need to see and feel that the doors are locked.
To recommend thrift to the poor is both grotesque and insulting. It is like advising a man who is starving to eat less.

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Help me understand this. I have a pretty good understanding Se it's pretty easy to understand, but if you are in fact an ISFJ as you think you might possibly be you might be able to explain Si to me. Since ISFJs are Si users not Se users. I don't understand it. Although, my mother is an ISFJ.

I know it has something to do with the past and objects associated with the past. Not only objects, but sights, smells etc... That is just one aspect of course. If you could help me out that would be cool.







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Quote Originally Posted by pizal81 View Post
Help me understand this. I have a pretty good understanding Se it's pretty easy to understand, but if you are in fact an ISFJ as you think you might possibly be you might be able to explain Si to me. Since ISFJs are Si users not Se users. I don't understand it. Although, my mother is an ISFJ.

I know it has something to do with the past and objects associated with the past. Not only objects, but sights, smells etc... That is just one aspect of course. If you could help me out that would be cool.
We are not around MBTI Nazi's here, Pizal. I realized that one time and changed my conversation. LOL
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Quote Originally Posted by millennialX View Post
We are not around MBTI Nazi's here, Pizal. I realized that one time and changed my conversation. LOL
Yeah, think is though the introverted and extroverted functions make them completely different. My dad is a Se user and my mom is an Si user and it seems they use S very differently.







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Quote Originally Posted by pizal81 View Post
Help me understand this. I have a pretty good understanding Se it's pretty easy to understand, but if you are in fact an ISFJ as you think you might possibly be you might be able to explain Si to me. Since ISFJs are Si users not Se users. I don't understand it. Although, my mother is an ISFJ.

I know it has something to do with the past and objects associated with the past. Not only objects, but sights, smells etc... That is just one aspect of course. If you could help me out that would be cool.
I think we have unusually strong internal "maps" of what things are supposed to look like, feel like, or sound like. I notice when things have been moved, or if something doesn't sound quite right.







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Quote Originally Posted by pizal81 View Post
Help me understand this. I have a pretty good understanding Se it's pretty easy to understand, but if you are in fact an ISFJ as you think you might possibly be you might be able to explain Si to me. Since ISFJs are Si users not Se users. I don't understand it. Although, my mother is an ISFJ.

I know it has something to do with the past and objects associated with the past. Not only objects, but sights, smells etc... That is just one aspect of course. If you could help me out that would be cool.
Actually, According to Jung Si is about subjective impressions of whatever is the object of perception.

From Psychological Types:

Sensation, which in obedience to its whole nature is concerned with the object and the objective stimulus, also undergoes a considerable modification in the introverted attitude. It, too, has a subjective factor, for beside the object sensed there stands a sensing subject, who contributes his subjective disposition to the objective stimulus. In the introverted attitude sensation is definitely based upon the subjective portion of perception. What is meant by this finds its best illustration in the reproduction of objects in art. When, for instance, several painters undertake to paint one and the same landscape, with a sincere attempt to reproduce it faithfully, each painting will none the less differ from the rest, not merely by virtue of a more or less developed ability, but chiefly because of a different vision; there will even appear in some of the paintings a decided psychic variation, both in general mood and in treatment of colour and form. Such qualities betray a more or less influential co-operation of the subjective factor. The subjective factor of sensation is essentially the same as in the other functions already spoken of. It is an unconscious disposition, which alters [p. 499] the sense-perception at its very source, thus depriving it of the character of a purely objective influence. In this case, sensation is related primarily to the subject, and only secondarily to the object. How extraordinarily strong the subjective factor can be is shown most clearly in art. The ascendancy of the subjective factor occasionally achieves a complete suppression of the mere influence of the object; but none the less sensation remains sensation, although it has come to be a perception of the subjective factor, and the effect of the object has sunk to the level of a mere stimulant. Introverted sensation develops in accordance with this subjective direction. A true sense-perception certainly exists, but it always looks as though objects were not so much forcing their way into the subject in their own right as that the subject were seeing things quite differently, or saw quite other things than the rest of mankind. As a matter of fact, the subject perceives the same things as everybody else, only, he never stops at the purely objective effect, but concerns himself with the subjective perception released by the objective stimulus. Subjective perception differs remarkably from the objective. It is either not found at all in the object, or, at most, merely suggested by it; it can, however, be similar to the sensation of other men, although not immediately derived from the objective behaviour of things. It does not impress one as a mere product of consciousness -- it is too genuine for that. But it makes a definite psychic impression, since elements of a higher psychic order are perceptible to it. This order, however, does not coincide with the contents of consciousness. It is concerned with presuppositions, or dispositions of the collective unconscious, with mythological images, with primal possibilities of ideas. The character of significance and meaning clings to subjective perception. It says more than the mere image of the object, though naturally only to him for whom the [p. 500] subjective factor has some meaning. To another, a reproduced subjective impression seems to suffer from the defect of possessing insufficient similarity with the object; it seems, therefore, to have failed in its purpose. Subjective sensation apprehends the background of the physical world rather than its surface. The decisive thing is not the reality of the object, but the reality of the subjective factor, i.e. the primordial images, which in their totality represent a psychic mirror-world. It is a mirror, however, with the peculiar capacity of representing the present contents of consciousness not in their known and customary form but in a certain sense sub specie aeternitatis, somewhat as a million-year old consciousness might see them. Such a consciousness would see the becoming and the passing of things beside their present and momentary existence, and not only that, but at the same time it would also see that Other, which was before their becoming and will be after their passing hence. To this consciousness the present moment is improbable. This is, of course, only a simile, of which, however, I had need to give some sort of illustration of the peculiar nature of introverted sensation. Introverted sensation conveys an image whose effect is not so much to reproduce the object as to throw over it a wrapping whose lustre is derived from age-old subjective experience and the still unborn future event. Thus, mere sense impression develops into the depth of the meaningful, while extraverted sensation seizes only the momentary and manifest existence of things.

7. The Introverted Sensation Type

The priority of introverted sensation produces a definite type, which is characterized by certain peculiarities. It is an irrational type, inasmuch as its selection among occurrences is not primarily rational, but is guided rather [p. 501] by what just happens. Whereas, the extraverted sensation-type is determined by the intensity of the objective influence, the introverted type is orientated by the intensity of the subjective sensation-constituent released by the objective stimulus. Obviously, therefore, no sort of proportional relation exists between object and sensation, but something that is apparently quite irregular and arbitrary judging from without, therefore, it is practically impossible to foretell what will make an impression and what will not. If there were present a capacity and readiness for expression in any way commensurate with the strength of sensation, the irrationality of this type would be extremely evident. This is the case, for instance, when the individual is a creative artist. But, since this is the exception, it usually happens that the characteristic introverted difficulty of expression also conceals his irrationality. On the contrary, he may actually stand out by the very calmness and passivity of his demeanour, or by his rational self-control. This peculiarity, which often leads the superficial judgment astray, is really due to his unrelatedness to objects. Normally the object is not consciously depreciated in the least, but its stimulus is removed from it, because it is immediately replaced by a subjective reaction, which is no longer related to the reality of the object. This, of course, has the same effect as a depreciation of the object. Such a type can easily make one question why one should exist at all; or why objects in general should have any right to existence, since everything essential happens without the object. This doubt may be justified in extreme cases, though not in the normal, since the objective stimulus is indispensable to his sensation, only it produces something different from what was to be surmised from the external state of affairs. Considered from without, it looks as though the effect of the object [p. 502] did not obtrude itself upon the subject. This impression is so far correct inasmuch as a subjective content does, in fact, intervene from the unconscious, thus snatching away the effect of the object. This intervention may be so abrupt that the individual appears to shield himself directly from any possible influence of the object. In any aggravated or well-marked case, such a protective guard is also actually present. Even with only a slight reinforcement of the unconscious, the subjective constituent of sensation becomes so alive that it almost completely obscures the objective influence. The results of this are, on the one hand, a feeling of complete depreciation on the part of the object, and, on the other, an illusory conception of reality on the part of the subject, which in morbid cases may even reach the point of a complete inability to discriminate between the real object and the subjective perception. Although so vital a distinction vanishes completely only in a practically psychotic state, yet long before that point is reached subjective perception may influence thought, feeling, and action to an extreme degree, in spite of the fact that the object is clearly seen in its fullest reality. Whenever the objective influence does succeed in forcing its way into the subject -- as the result of particular circumstances of special intensity, or because of a more perfect analogy with the unconscious image -- even the normal example of this type is induced to act in accordance with his unconscious model. Such action has an illusory quality in relation to objective reality, and therefore has a very odd and strange character. It instantly reveals the anti-real subjectivity of the type, But, where the influence of the object does not entirely succeed, it encounters a benevolent neutrality, disclosing little sympathy, yet constantly striving to reassure and adjust. The too-low is raised a little, the too-high is made a little lower; the enthusiastic is damped, the [p. 503] extravagant restrained; and the unusual brought within the 'correct' formula: all this in order to keep the influence of the object within the necessary bounds. Thus, this type becomes an affliction to his circle, just in so far as his entire harmlessness is no longer above suspicion. But, if the latter should be the case, the individual readily becomes a victim to the aggressiveness and ambitions of others. Such men allow themselves to be abused, for which they usually take vengeance at the most unsuitable occasions with redoubled stubbornness and resistance. When there exists no capacity for artistic expression, all impressions sink into the inner depths, whence they hold consciousness under a spell, removing any possibility it might have had of mastering the fascinating impression by means of conscious expression. Relatively speaking, this type has only archaic possibilities of expression for the disposal of his impressions; thought and feeling are relatively unconscious, and, in so far as they have a certain consciousness, they only serve in the necessary, banal, every-day expressions. Hence as conscious functions, they are wholly unfitted to give any adequate rendering of the subjective perceptions. This type, therefore, is uncommonly inaccessible to an objective understanding and he fares no better in the understanding of himself.

Above all, his development estranges him from the reality of the object, handing him over to his subjective perceptions, which orientate his consciousness in accordance with an archaic reality, although his deficiency in comparative judgment keeps him wholly unaware of this fact. Actually he moves in a mythological world, where men animals, railways, houses, rivers, and mountains appear partly as benevolent deities and partly as malevolent demons. That thus they, appear to him never enters his mind, although their effect upon his judgments and acts can bear no other interpretation. He judges and acts as [p. 504] though he had such powers to deal with; but this begins to strike him only when he discovers that his sensations are totally different from reality. If his tendency is to reason objectively, he will sense this difference as morbid; but if, on the other hand, he remains faithful to his irrationality, and is prepared to grant his sensation reality value, the objective world will appear a mere make-belief and a comedy. Only in extreme cases, however, is this dilemma reached. As a rule, the individual acquiesces in his isolation and in the banality of the reality, which, however, he unconsciously treats archaically.

His unconscious is distinguished chiefly by the repression of intuition, which thereby acquires an extraverted and archaic character. Whereas true extraverted intuition has a characteristic resourcefulness, and a 'good nose' for every possibility in objective reality, this archaic, extraverted intuition has an amazing flair for every ambiguous, gloomy, dirty, and dangerous possibility in the background of reality. In the presence of this intuition the real and conscious intention of the object has no significance; it will peer behind every possible archaic antecedent of such an intention. It possesses, therefore, something dangerous, something actually undermining, which often stands in most vivid contrast to the gentle benevolence of consciousness. So long as the individual is not too aloof from the object, the unconscious intuition effects a wholesome compensation to the rather fantastic and over credulous attitude of consciousness. But as soon as the unconscious becomes antagonistic to consciousness, such intuitions come to the surface and expand their nefarious influence: they force themselves compellingly upon the individual, releasing compulsive ideas about objects of the most perverse kind. The neurosis arising from this sequence of events is usually a compulsion neurosis, in which the hysterical characters recede and are obscured by symptoms of exhaustion. [p. 505]
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Yeah, this matches what some of the more popularized things say about Si and the past. The sense links to their background information in a profound way. Sometimes this leads to objects being treasured as reminders of events and people from the past. This would be just on manifestation of Si.







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Quote Originally Posted by Child of Socrates View Post
I think we have unusually strong internal "maps" of what things are supposed to look like, feel like, or sound like. I notice when things have been moved, or if something doesn't sound quite right.
What happens when this maps and reality are not the same?







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Quote Originally Posted by pizal81 View Post
What happens when this maps and reality are not the same?
It can be emotionally disturbing. I wonder sometimes if Si explains some autistic behaviors.







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Quote Originally Posted by Child of Socrates View Post
It can be emotionally disturbing. I wonder sometimes if Si explains some autistic behaviors.
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It's like the computer that you say an illogical statement to and then it overloads itself trying to figure it out.

It sounds like an immature dominate Si user can put a lot of pressure on those around them to make the real world match that internal map.







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Quote Originally Posted by pizal81 View Post
What happens when this maps and reality are not the same?
I used to keep arguing with my (SJ) ex over exactly that. "Well, that turn lane (the one he was in at the moment) shouldn't be there!"

"Well, 'should be' isn't 'is'."

"Well, it should be."
How to spot a shill, by John Michael Greer: "What you watch for is (a) a brand new commenter who (b) has nothing to say about the topic under discussion but (c) trots out a smoothly written opinion piece that (d) hits all the standard talking points currently being used by a specific political or corporate interest, while (e) avoiding any other points anyone else has made on that subject."

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Quote Originally Posted by The Grey Badger View Post
I used to keep arguing with my (SJ) ex over exactly that. "Well, that turn lane (the one he was in at the moment) shouldn't be there!"

"Well, 'should be' isn't 'is'."

"Well, it should be."
HAHAHA, I sound just like your Ex.

"That isn't how things are..."
"Well that's how they SHOULD be!!!"
"But that's not the way it is and you just have to deal with that."
"Or maybe we should change things so they work the right way."
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Quote Originally Posted by Odin View Post
HAHAHA, I sound just like your Ex.

"That isn't how things are..."
"Well that's how they SHOULD be!!!"
"But that's not the way it is and you just have to deal with that."
"Or maybe we should change things so they work the right way."
Oh, I'll do the same with blatantly bad design! But trying to go straight on a turn lane that's been their for 20 years because it shouldn't be there?
How to spot a shill, by John Michael Greer: "What you watch for is (a) a brand new commenter who (b) has nothing to say about the topic under discussion but (c) trots out a smoothly written opinion piece that (d) hits all the standard talking points currently being used by a specific political or corporate interest, while (e) avoiding any other points anyone else has made on that subject."

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Quote Originally Posted by The Grey Badger View Post
Oh, I'll do the same with blatantly bad design! But trying to go straight on a turn lane that's been their for 20 years because it shouldn't be there?
I think that is mature vs immature Si if that's what we are talking about. If a strong Si user runs across something they think needs to be changed they should not overreact or refuse to accept the actual circumstance. it involve self control.

I'm and ENFP and Fi reeks havoc in my life sometimes.







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Quote Originally Posted by The Grey Badger View Post
Oh, I'll do the same with blatantly bad design! But trying to go straight on a turn lane that's been their for 20 years because it shouldn't be there?
About a mile from my father's house is a one-lane railroad tunnel. It is signed for northbound traffic to yield to southbound. My father insists it's not a Yield sign, it's a "taking turns" sign. I worry (especially now that he's 63) that he's going to get himself killed one day with that attitude. (Once a city truck going south had to back out so we could get all the way through going north.)
"My generation, we were the generation that was going to change the world: somehow we were going to make it a little less lonely, a little less hungry, a little more just place. But it seems that when that promise slipped through our hands we didnīt replace it with nothing but lost faith."

Bruce Springsteen, 1987
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Post#1499 at 01-26-2012 12:18 PM by Odin [at Moorhead, MN, USA joined Sep 2006 #posts 14,442]
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Quote Originally Posted by The Grey Badger View Post
Oh, I'll do the same with blatantly bad design! But trying to go straight on a turn lane that's been their for 20 years because it shouldn't be there?
You'd be surprised at the great diversity of idiotic things even intelligent people can do and say when they are running on habit.
To recommend thrift to the poor is both grotesque and insulting. It is like advising a man who is starving to eat less.

-Oscar Wilde, The Soul of Man under Socialism







Post#1500 at 01-29-2012 06:26 AM by pizal81 [at China joined May 2010 #posts 2,392]
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I have another questions for you Si users. As an ENFP I have a problem living in the moment. My mind is always dwelling on the future or some alternate reality in someone. In college some of my friends wouldn't understand how I could forget certain things that happened at a basketball game or concert. I remember the experience, but not the specifics of the experience.
Now you Si users do you tend dwell in the present or past or some other alternative? My Se using dad ESFP doesn't seem like he can see past tomorrow most days. I wondered if Si was any different.
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