What you ought to do is think about some of the examples you're
talking about and examine how these societies conduct war. I've
given several examples on my web site.
A good place to start is the chapter on Tolstoy's War and Peace in my
first book. It shows how Russia beat Napoleon by retreating. It's
an excellent example.
http://www.generationaldynamics.com/...0.book.tolstoy
Another excellent example is last summer's Lebanon war between Israel
and Hizbullah. Israel fought the war in a "hot" crisis era style,
while Hizbollah fought the war in a "cool" awakening era style; the
Lebanese public completely stayed out of it, also an awakening era
style. (I believe that if Lebanon had been in a crisis era at the
time, then the Mideast would be at full-scale war by now.)
What you have to think about is the essential differences in behavior
between people fighting in crisis and non-crisis wars. War can come
at any time; a society might even be exterminated by war at any time.
But issue is not how the OTHER side fights, or who gets exterminated.
The issue is how the people in question fight, and they will fight
quite differently in crisis and non-crisis wars.