Originally Posted by
Danilynn
Just an observation. I'm probably going to be called ignorant. but oh, well.
Remember in the 70's and early 80's how few obese people were around? Most everyone was slimmer, kids ate just as much junk food when given a chance then too. Drank cokes on occasion, had candy bars. Had cupcakes at school functions, and drank sweetened sugar loaded kool-aide. Remember the Kool-aide mascot? So what changed?
Real sugar was used, not the corn fructose stuff. Kids were allowed to be kids, play outside, hell in some cases told to go outside. ride bikes and skateboards without over-bearing adults legislating all the fun right out of play.
Being fat in the 80's was not socially acceptable, however, smoking was. Result, you really didn't see a whole lot of really obese or morbidly obese people. There might have been 1 or 2 kids per school, not class, the whole school that were fat.
Now you see the inverse of that, smoking has been ostracized and demonized, as it should have been all along. If you choose to, have a ball. If not good on you. But now obese gets lip service, and has been made socially acceptable.
Real sugar is mostly gone from foods and drinks unless you make them at home. Which has also changed, no one seems to make/cook foods from scratch anymore.
This is not going to win me any friends, but here goes, in for a pence in for a pound.
I wear a size 4. ( 15 years ago at the same size as now, I wore a 6 sometimes an 8. Clothing has gotten bigger but sizes have been changed to say smaller. Don't believe it? find some old dress patterns from the 70's and check the measurements given for size against what's given today) It used to be easier 15 years ago to find that size clothing. Now, it's easier to find size 12/14/16/18 women's clothes. I know this first hand from shopping with a larger friend of over a decade. Used to be easier when we went shopping for me to find clothes, now more often than not she has better luck finding clothes. It's almost a complete reversal of where it was for us back then. More often than not if I find clothes in my size they are marketed for teenagers.
My husband is on the small side too. We ended up having to specially order his last suit. Because no store around here carried a size 30 waist ( he actually needs a 28, but that's not ever happened) with a 34 length.
Plates have gotten larger. My mom still has the dishes she bought new in 1979. the dinner plates from that set are about the size of the salad/sandwich plate in the set I bought 4 years ago. So what seems a serving size has gotten skewed. Sidewalks have disappeared from most areas built in residential areas after the 70's. Drive around sometime if you aren't in a large metropolis like NYC and observe this.
It has become ok to pick on one bad habit like smoking, and point out the detrimental stuff from it, but never ever say the same about obesity, because then you are shaming the person by the pc crowd. In the same time frame I have referenced I have noticed it seems to be perfectly ok though to say awful things to/about women who aren't overweight.