Originally Posted by
Brian Rush
To quote Sesame Street: "One of these things is not like the other . . ."
Able to main monopoly of use of force, and not swamped under continual protests, are objective, value-free criteria. Respects human rights is a personal judgment of what is desirable; further, it implies an underlying judgment of what rights people have that government ought to respect. I think you are confusing two different questions here: what does a government HAVE to be, versus what, in your judgment, SHOULD a government be...
All that really matters is that a government have the support of its own people. If it does, then its legitimate. If I don't approve of what that government does, that factors into legitimacy only if I happen to live under it. And even then it might not be determinative, if enough people disagree with me.