http://tundratabloids.com/2008/04/sw...ld-brides.html
http://www.nydailynews.com/opinion/i...ticle-1.456314
It has almost nothing to do with my "American" beliefs, and everything to do with the place of the law and the state where women and children are concerned: these girls range in age from about seven to age seventeen and are married off to men old enough to be their grandfathers. Oftentimes they are traded as pieces of property, not as people: the family is poor, so they have to sell their daughters to gain access to money. (A failing of the Swedish system as it doesn't always enable advancement as it claims due to ample racism.) When they are taken to places like Saudi Arabia, they lose many of the rights they were born with; for Christ's sake, they lose the ability to drive a car in Saudi Arabia and they lose their family, their friends, everything for a 52 year old man they do not know, do not love, and, if the bride is just a ten year old, may be sexually abused by come the wedding night and every night after until she finally ovulates, produces a child, and dies young. Saudi Arabia, like most of the Middle East and Iran, may not recognize her as a citizen of Sweden or totally ignore it (an issue of international importance) and getting a divorce would be like trying to stick a bull's balls in a bear trap-inadvisable, and possibly deadly.
The state should intervene here because it can't have its youngest citizens shipped off to faraway lands and forced into false marriages. It is not in national interest to promote sexual slavery, pedophilia, and rape, whether at home or abroad. There is ample precedence that these forces are destructive to society. It is equally not in national interest to forget to assure the rights of Swedish citizens when they are present in foreign lands nor is it in the interest of places like Iran and Yemen to ignore the Swedes in diplomatic matters as bluntly Sweden is a source of remittances, aid, and is a creditor to these impoverished places. Further, because this behavior is highly socialized, it won't hit home that it isn't to be tolerated nor condoned unless there are measures to curb its practice: an outright ban might just force it underground. Stopping the recognition of marriages where the bride was underage from entering Sweden to begin with, well, that would help as it makes it less likely that any daughters born to the couple shall be sold one day. Taking away children from a couple that has conspired to sell their daughter and placing them in a sort of foster care might send a clear message home that if you do x, you get y punishment.
For women who are married to a brute, the fact is that honor killing is common, though not exclusive to, these cultures: a wife who leaves a husband makes the husband feel shame, and his family too: in the eyes of these people, the only way to purge the shame is to kill the woman and destroy the reminder of a failure. Women, in turn, are shamed into staying with these men and otherwise compelled by the fact that in most of these places she loses all access to her children and loses access to valuable resources that would enable her to live and provide for herself. In Sweden, the means to self support are not denied nor the right to gain custody of children in a divorce, but the capacity for revenge or honor killing increases because the man and his relatives are "shamed" to be beaten by a woman. There needs to be an escape for these ladies, should they so choose to leave, and it is in the interest of the state and the law to intervene on her behalf as shooting your ex-wife or beating up your current one is a condition that only adds to a cycle of abuse and despair, societal decay. Armed guards at a safe house would work, as would gobs of restraining orders, and even possible relocation of the woman and her children in another place very far, under a new name. The interest of the state is to prevent murder and prosecute those who would commit it or be an accessory to it, and expose the enablers. A man does not need to kill his wife to feel like a man again; all she has to do is leave and never return.
Cultural identity has nothing to do with it when it is okay to beat up your wife, sell your daughter, and treat women like shit. It is certainly not unique to Middle Eastern nations and actually occurs in a lot of places in Asia and parts of South America. The failures of the legal system in the Middle East would do well to be addressed in the new home of immigrants, Sweden, else be felt ad infinitum et perpetua for generations to come.